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Create the Balance You Crave

Be the mother AND the career woman you've always envisioned

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without sacrificing your health, sanity, or precious moments with your family.

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Don't wake up a few short years from now with regret. 

Where did the time go with my babies??  Did the last years really pass in such a blur of exhaustion and never ending to-do lists that I can hardly recall the daily joyous moments?  

I thought it would get easier if I just could just get by until they were older...or until that project was over….or the pandemic was no longer raging….but it never really did.  I still feel like I’m sooooo busy, rushing everywhere (even if it's virtual), and overwhelmed. 

 

I don’t have time for the things I know I need in my life: fun (I used to be fun - I swear!), time for myself, energy to stay healthy and keep up with our schedules and my kids.

Your Biggest Fear

TAKE YOUR FIRST STEP

Do you want to feel balanced and confident in your decision making, knowing that you are creating a life by design and focused on the things that really matter?

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30-Days to be More Present

Build the SKILL of being more present with those who matter most.

Being present is a skill, and skills take practice to develop! 

Sometimes you don't need more time, you just need to take the time to notice what's already there.

If you want to increase your ability to turn the workday off and be present with those who matter most, join us in practicing it:)

30 Day Virtual Challenge

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Balance Breakthrough Call

Let me help you define YOUR next step towards balance

Come as you are.  Let's just chat about what's going on in your life. 

 

Let me listen and give you a tactic to help you feel better.

I'll also assess your needs to see if any of my programs would be beneficial to you.

45 minute complimentary coaching session

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Motherhood Balanced Program

 1:1 coaching paired with bite-sized modules and exercises to get you BALANCED.

Learn how to better manage your time, set boundaries, ask for help effectively, let go of non-priorities (and the guilt!), and understand and create the habits that keep YOUR life in balance.

We move at YOUR pace and I help you in exactly the areas you want.

Ongoing Program (typical length = 4 months)

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How I can i help?

I've been teaching and coaching for over 15 years in the professional space.  I LOVE helping people improve what matters to them.

And now, more than ever, mothers need help creating the balance they CRAVE in their life.  I believe you can have BOTH a thriving career you are passionate about AND be the mother you've always envisioned for your kiddos.  When I combine those two things, that's what creates a lot of happiness and fulfillment for me.  

 

There is an art and a science to fulfillment.  The tools and strategies I use have not only have they helped me - they are backed by evidence and practical! (I'm an engineer by training and by heart & mind).

 

 I will be there for you every step of the way.  I will encourage you and have confidence in you (just like my coach did for me).  I will help you reflect to define your needs to get to the balance you desire.

I was living in a chaotic state just a few short years ago.  I had returned from maternity leave from my second child.  I remember the night my husband came into the bathroom as I was crying (again).  Feeling like I was living in that Shrek 2 scene where the days just re-run over and over and over in a blur of the same. I was FAR from happy.  I was FAR from fulfilled.  I felt the daily tug-of-war between what I thought I needed to do to be a good mom and homemaker and what I needed to do to be a good employee and leader.  Frankly, I felt I was falling short at all of those roles.  I was simply trying to get through each day as it came at me and then collapse into bed to have it all happen again tomorrow.   Well my partner told me (very supportive and well-meaning) that we just needed to "grit our teeth and bear it" for a little longer.  Until the kids were a little older - it would all get better.  

 

But I didn't see the light at the end of the tunnel.  This wasn't sustainable. I didn't see how TIME would make me feel better.  So I made a decision that night - that I was going to be my own hero.  I was (somehow) going to find a way to feel...alive again, happy again, fulfilled again.

What people say

I was able to create more balance by learning that it’s ok to take time for ME. It’s just as important as the time I give to others, if not more important. Having a balance with myself, my kid, my husband, my job… with life was much much needed.

- Jessicia

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